“Gratitude is the sign of noble souls.” ~Aesop
A friend of mine recently published a blog post on why she feels grateful about the life she leads. I enjoyed reading how her days are filled with joy and gratitude. Her accompanying photographs reveals the beauty that surrounds her, and I felt, for a brief moment, the light that emits from within her heart and soul.
I felt grateful.
“When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around.” ~Willie Nelson
This week I learned of tragedies happening to some friends who live far away. Their pain was palpable as I read their pleas for prayer and good thoughts. I reflected on my life and my own daily struggles. Their pleas put my troubles into perspective.
I am grateful.
“To speak gratitude is courteous and pleasant,
to enact gratitude is generous and noble,
but to live gratitude is to touch Heaven.” ~ Johannes A. Gaertner
Black arrows on left show where boardwalk used to be before Hurricane Sandy. Black arrows on right show temporary walkway.
On Sunday I spent a magical day with my husband, as we call it in New Jersey, “down the shore.” The weather was perfect without a cloud in the sky. A gentle breeze blew, keeping the heat of the sun at bay. The Jersey shore is alive and well in the wake of Hurricane Sandy. The phrase “Jersey Strong” says it all, and we benefitted from that strength. We stretched out, side-by-side, on our little corner of the beach, talking and laughing and listening to the sound of the waves.
I was grateful.
“No one is as capable of gratitude as one who has escaped the kingdom of night.” ~Elie Wiesel, accepting Nobel Peace Prize (1986)
An Islamic group claimed responsibility for rocket fire in Israel and declared no Israeli town to be safe. Two small towns in Nigeria were victim to violent attacks by gunfire that resulted in at least 56 deaths. Violent clashes in Xinjiang (China) left 21 dead and two people were sentenced to death. These are a few of the leading stories in today’s news. Violence is everywhere. The world is a scary place. We no longer feel the comfort and safety we felt before the horrific events of 9/11. Today we are more cautious, knowing that violence happens on our own soil. These thoughts crawl in and out of my consciousness, and I am aware of the possibilities that surround me.
I steadfastly remain grateful.
“It is impossible to feel grateful and depressed in the same moment.” ~Naomi Williams, Body, Mind and Spirit
I was surprised, thrilled and deeply honored to have my first ever BlogHer post about attending BlogHer with a disability featured on the cover (which I understand is hallowed ground) of the BlogHer website. I wrote it not only for myself, but also for the disability community I speak to every day. They continue to inspire and empower me. I am ironically grateful for my diagnosis, because without it I would never have had a chance to meet the incredible people who have entered my life.
I will always be grateful.
“A noble person is mindful and thankful for the favors he receives from others.” ~The Buddha
Good and bad, decent and evil may enter into our lives at any given moment. These are the realities of our world. These are also the truths of aging.
I believe we all have two options. Yes, it really is that simple. We can choose from Column A or B.
My wise and beloved uncle once told me, “Life is for the living.” He told me to enjoy my life, drink it all in, and savor every pleasant moment. He said the world is a wondrous place, and it was up to me to live each day fully. He lived by his words, and I choose to do the same.
Which column will you choose?
