We Mourn The Loss And Celebrate The Legacies

Heaven became richer this weekend with the passing of three incredibly gifted men who were each deeply committed to their craft. They illuminated our lives in varied ways with their brilliance and talents, and brightened our world with their legacies. We were blessed to have had them among us.

They will be missed.

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I can’t imagine our world without ever having the great, compassionate Oliver Sacks, the neurologist who loved and understood people and wrote his own unique tune of bridging science with storytelling. He lived his life so large that retelling it for the sake of an obituary seems almost impossible. Sacks was such an extraordinarily gifted man, studying the intricacies of the brain from every angle and applying his wealth of knowledge to help those suffering with brain-related illnesses through his practice and his books.

"People will make a life in their own terms, whether they are deaf or colourblind or autistic or whatever. And their world will be quite as rich and interesting and full as our world." ~Oliver Sacks

I see his writings as examples of possibility – pairing humanity with medicine by having an open and radiant heart. His love of music - particularly Beethoven and Mendelssohn - was legendary. It helped carry him to a kind of spirituality that helped him help others through the human suffering he understood too well. He knew a synergy existed between the mind and body and leaned on that for wellness for himself and others.

Music can lift us out of depression or move us to tears – it is a remedy, a tonic, orange juice for the ear. But for many of my neurological patients, music is even more – it can provide access, even when no medication can, to movement, to speech, to life. For them, music is not a luxury, but a necessity.” ~Oliver Sacks

To learn more about Oliver Sacks check out his 1974 memoir A Leg to Stand On or his insights on transforming our cognition through music in his book Musicophilia.

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I first fell in love with author and motivational speaker Wayne Dyer after reading his 1976 bestselling book The Erroneous Zones that taught me how to stop negative self-talk. At the time I didn’t know it but his words would later play an important role in my life after being diagnosed with MS. Other books would follow that were equally helpful including Pulling Your Own StringsChange Your Thoughts Change Your Life, The Power of Intention and Excuses Begone!

"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." 
""Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice."
"Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life."~Wayne Dyer

The other day I took my usual walk and listened (for the millionth time) to Dyer reading his book Living the Wisdom of the Tao. He explains the teachings of the great Chinese prophet Lao-tzu and how changing the way you think will change your life. I love listening to Dyer's voice; this book always resonates deeply. Every time I hear it I am inspired and re-energized. It is a great gift he left for all of us.

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I admittedly was not a fan of Wes Craven movies. But you can’t argue the popularity of his films in such series as Nightmare on Elm Street and Scream. Going from the academic world into porn and then onto horror films, Craven carved a niche for himself that many theatergoers will truly miss.

Our world feels a bit emptier right now, but the legacies left behind by these three gentlemen help fill that void. To simply say thank you for their work sounds so inadequate. So instead I’ll share Oliver Sack’s last tweet (August 23) with his choice of accompanying video.

“A beautiful way to perform one of the world’s great musical treasures.” Oliver Sacks

Two Must-See Movies That Will Capture Your Heart (Movie Review)

I recently learned about a groundbreaking film festival touring the country called The REELAbilities Film Festival. Created in 2007, this festival is dedicated to spreading awareness about disability through film.  It offers an opportunity to see award-winning movies, by and about people living with disabilities, in a city near you.

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I was fortunate to see three of their films, two that I will review here; the third I’ll review in a separate post

Gabrielle (2013, French with subtitles): Gabrielle, a 2013 Canadian Oscar nominated film, is a simple love story about a young woman with William’s Syndrome who has an infectious zest for life and a strong need to live a “normal” one.  She falls in love with Martin, a young man she meets at the recreation center where they both are choir members.  Gabrielle and Martin become inseparable until Martin’s mother fears they are becoming intimate, causing her decision to keep her son home and away from Gabrielle’s heart.

I highly recommend this movie for several reasons.  First, I felt I was not being hit over the head with any heavy moral messages.  The director used a soft touch by allowing the characters and the story to gently unfold, weaving its way in and out of delicate matters that finally landing directly into my heart..

Another reason I enjoyed Gabrielle was because of Gabrielle Marion-Rivard and her joie de vivre performance in the lead role. This was her first professional role, yet this remarkable young woman with her captivating smile and sweet disposition was a joy to watch.  She was the character, and her performance was certainly award worthy.

Her role allowed us to take a peek inside her world, and through her we see what life is like when able-bodied people don’t understand the abilities someone can possess despite any disability they may have.

It’s All About Friends (2014, Swedish with subtitles): I strongly recommend this feel-good movie that uses disabled actors as some of the main characters (as does Gabrielle).  The film centers around a circle of friends who live in a group home, and decide they’d like to make a film about their lives.  Their friend, Peter, calls his old friend, Max, who is about to commit suicide.  Unknowingly, Peter’s phone call saves Max’s life.  Max agrees to shoot the film, but doesn’t know it will center on people with varying disabilities.  He is now forced to face his own prejudices.

This is a sweet movie with characters that charm themselves into our hearts.  It’s an indie-type movie that makes us glad we took the time to watch it.  We cheer the characters on as we realize that their goodness and valuable insight is teaching us that disability doesn’t mean inability.

To find venues and the schedule of events for all of the films, please visit the  REELAbilities Film Festival website.

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