I've Been Living With A Lie

I want to let you in on a secret that I've never told anybody. It's not earth shattering or something you'll remember long after you read it. But if I don't admit it now I'll be continuing to live a lie.

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I don't keep up with pop culture. There, I said it. Phew.

I have no idea who most of the people, movies or television programs splashed across the covers of PEOPLE, Entertainment Weekly or Us Weekly are. I don't know one Kardashian from another, and believe it or not I am not personally acquainted with The New Jersey Housewives. (Yes, I've been asked.)

Can they please move to Iowa or somewhere else?

I read blog posts every day about young starlets or upcoming movies that are unfamiliar to me. I'm embarrassed to admit I have no idea what they're talking about. I usually turn to imdb.com for answers.

If I'm asked who my favorite movie star is, I pause and act like I have one who's still alive.

My interest in most movies stopped somewhere in the mid 1960's. Don't get me wrong: I love movies and the art of filmmaking. If a new movie comes along that is well-made, I'll be the first person to purchase a ticket.

But the glitz, glamour and decadence of Hollywood - and the popularity of violence in movies - frequently turns me off.

I think movies should trust the viewer to be smart enough to visualize what happens after the camera stops rolling. A movie doesn't need to show the blood and guts of violence, or what happens after the bedroom door closes.

Of course there are exceptions. "Saving Private Ryan" is one movie that comes to mind. It's accurate depiction of what happened during the Normandy invasion and the landing on Omaha Beach had a responsibility to the soldiers we fought and died during that war. If Stephen Spielberg chose not to show the horrors of war it would have been a disgrace.

For those of you who know me well please skip this paragraph. My Utopia would be spending a week in Hollywood with Robert Osborne and Ben Mankiewicz at the Turner Classic Film Festival, or going on their TCM cruise.

Last Saturday night my husband and I spent a perfect evening together, eating a delicious meal and snuggling up to watch an old movie.

The film was called "Call Northside 777" a 1948 documentary style film noir directed by Henry Hathaway and starring James Stewart, Lee J. Cobb and Richard Conte. Based on a true story about a man who was wrongly accused, Stewart plays the persistent reporter who tries to re-open the case to prove the man's innocence after spending 11 years in jail.

This film is available on Netflix and I recommend watching it. Other film noirs I'd recommend are "Double Indemnity", "The Maltese Falcon", "The Third Man", "The Big Sleep", "Laura", "The Postman Always Rings Twice" (with John Garfield and Lana Turner), and "Strangers on a Train."

No explicit sex or violence, relying only on well-written scripts and superb acting, directing and filming.

So that's my big secret. I hope you understand me a little better now. And if you happen to mention names like Shaillene, Analeigh, Felicity or Chloe (I had to look those up) and I have a blank stare on my face, please don't think I'm being rude. It's simply because I have no idea who you're talking about.

Movie Review: The Lady In Number 6

Last night my husband and I watched The Lady in Number 6, last year's Oscar winning best documentary (short subject) that tells the story of Alice Herz-Sommer, the oldest living Holocaust survivor who died in February at the age of 110.

Lady in number 6

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When the film was over I looked over at my husband and didn't utter a word.

It was one of the most inspirational and uplifting stories I have seen in many years, all because of the spirit and attitude of Ms. Sommer, a most extraordinary person.

Alice Herz-Sommer grew up in Prague, the daughter of two highly educated parents whose circle of friends included Franz Kafka and Gustav Mahler. Sommer learned to play the piano and was encouraged by Artur Schnabel, another family friend, to pursue a career as a classical pianist.

Lady in Number 6

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"Kafka was a slightly strange man. He used to come to our house, sit and talk with my mother, mainly about his writing. He did not talk a lot, but rather loved quiet and nature. We frequently went on trips together. I remember that Kafka took us to a very nice place outside Prague. We sat on a bench and he told us stories." ~Alice Herz-Sommer

She married a fellow musician, Leopold Sommer, in 1931 and gave birth to a son in 1937. This would prove to be the happiest time for her new family. By then, the grumblings of Nazism began to take over Prague, and Jews lost all rights, including the right to own pianos and play music. Yet Ms. Sommer continued to quietly play.

Her husband was soon deported to Auschwitz, and she and her young son left for Theresienstadt, a carefully planned concentration camp where many educated Jews and their children survived through their talents as artists.  Ms. Sommer played concerts for many audiences and practiced her piano daily, knowing that outside the door many Nazi soldiers stopped to listen to her play. She recalled one time having the Angel of Death, Josef Mengele, stop by to request she play Chopin for him.

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"We had to play because the Red Cross came three times a year. The Germans wanted to show its representatives that the situation of the Jews in Theresienstadt was good. Whenever I knew that I had a concert, I was happy. Music is magic. We performed in the council hall before an audience of 150 old, hopeless, sick and hungry people. They lived for the music. It was like food to them. If they hadn’t come [to hear us], they would have died long before. As we would have." ~Alice Herz-Sommer

But this film is not a typical Holocaust story. It does not dwell for long on what went on in the camps, and the heinous crimes against humanity happening all over Europe. It is more about joy and love, and we are blessed for the privilege of meeting and spending time with Alice from her tiny London apartment. She was a woman who brought a smile to your face because her heart was so full of love for people and music. To her, there was G-d and then there was music. And it is that music that saved her life.

"Music saved my life and music saves me still... I am Jewish, but Beethoven is my religion." ~Alice Herz-Sommer

The director, Malcolm Clarke, was brilliant in his decision not to interview Alice the way many documentarians do for their films. She IS the movie. As he states, " Alice is a communicable disease. Alice’s optimism is infectious. You come away from Alice’s apartment, and it’s like being at a health spa, psychologically."

After we listen to her and her two best friends, also survivors of Theresienstadt, discuss their lives, we learn why a positive outlook on life is the key to survival in a world gone mad.  Yet it's Alice's unique brand of optimism, her commitment to her art and the joy she found at living her long life that clearly illustrates this best.

“Sometimes it happens that I am thankful to have been there,” she says of her time at the camp. “I am richer than other people. When I hear them saying, oh, this is terrible—no, it is not so terrible.” ~Alice Herz-Sommers

We were blessed to have had such a rare and beautiful woman among us. We will never forget you, Ms. Sommer.

The Lady in Number 6 is available on Netflix.

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Six Of My Favorite Oscar Moments Through The Years (VIDEO)

For those of you who know me or read my blog, you know I'm wild, nutty, crazy obsessive about movies and movie history.  In honor of my obsession, and in tribute to tomorrow night's Academy Award's, here are a few awards I'd give out:

THE Best Oscar Moment
As a streaker ran past David Niven during the 1974 ceremonies, he kept it together until the audience's laughter died down enough to say my favorite Oscar quip.

Best Oscar Speech
In 2002, when Russell Crowe won Best Actor for "A Beautiful Mind", he was humble and touching. I loved his line about being "on the downside of advantage."

Best Honorary Oscar
The comic actor and filmmaker, Charlie Chaplin, left the U.S. in 1952.  Soon after, Attorney General James P. McGranery stated Chaplin would be allowed back into the States only after submitting to an interview regarding his political views and moral behavior.  In 1972, Chaplin returned for the first time in 20 years to receive a special Oscar. He was given a 12 minute standing ovation, the longest in Oscar history.

The First Televised Academy Awards (Bob Hope, host)
I'm a sucker for Hollywood nostalgia, so I love watching vintage clips of what the Oscars looked before Joan Rivers began asking that annoying question, "Who are you wearing tonight?"

Best of Sore Losers
This clip is not only from the Oscars.  I was in agreement with Elton John's anti-lip syncing rant against Madonna for winning Best Live Act.

Award for Touching our Hearts Twice
Christopher Plummer stole my heart twice.  Once was when he sang the song "Edelweiss" in the movie, "The Sound of Music."  The other was when he won his 2012 Best Supporting Actor Oscar (the oldest person to ever receive one, at age 82) for the movie "Beginners." Well-deserved.

There have been so many other special moments that have touched my heart over the years.  I hope the 2014 presentation will add some others to my list.

What are your favorite Oscar moments?

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Why I Want To Remember Cary Grant On His Birthday

The other day as I was driving into Manhattan, I turned on my favorite XM radio station called Radio Classics.  I instantly recognized the actor speaking and thought to myself, “Perfect timing.”

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My copy of a 1971 LOOK Magazine featuring Cary Grant

Despite bumper-to-bumper traffic, crazy drivers and torrential rain, nothing bothered me.  That's because I was listening to an episode of Suspense starring my all-time favorite actor, Cary Grant.

In honor of Cary’s January 18th birthday, (I feel funny calling him Mr. Grant because he seems so familiar to me, and also because readers might be confused by thinking I’m referring to Mary Richard’s boss) they were playing back-to-back episodes of his radio appearances.

I’d like to briefly explain why I’ve always been in love with Cary Grant.  I know there are millions of others who are in love with him, but I’m the one who has, in all honesty, loved him the most.

At first, it was his dashing good looks that caught my eye, and of course his wit and charm as well.  But as I got older, I recognized there was so much more to him.

He is, and always will be, the greatest comedic actor of all time.  Let me prove it to you. Watch his performances in His Girl Friday or Arsenic and Old Lace.  His comic timing is pure genius, and his pratfalls and back flips (perfected during his youth when he was an acrobat) are adeptly intertwined into the movie dialogue with rhythmic precision.

You can’t help but laugh.

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My collection, so far, of Cary Grant movies.

There’s also his dramatic acting.  I can watch him, over and over, in any Alfred Hitchcock film and notice something new, some tiny nuance, that I hadn’t noticed before.

Watch his eyes carefully, and the way he reacts to the other actors.  Don’t take your eyes off of him for one second. You’ll not only learn about good acting, but also why he was so successful at his craft.

You’re never quite sure if he’s trying to kill Joan Fontaine.  You're unsure if he'll stop harassing Ingrid Bergman while she’s being secretly poisoned by Claude Rains.

No matter what the outcome may be, you'll remain on his side because he's always a likable character.

That’s why he’s the consummate performer.

I’ll never understand why he never won an Academy Award, or why he was only nominated twice (Penny Serenade and None but the Lonely Hearts) despite his long and varied career.

In 1970, the Academy awarded him with an Honorary Oscar for, “his unique mastery of the art of screen acting with the respect and affection of his colleagues.

After Frank Sinatra presented him with his award, he wiped the tears from his eyes as the audience continued with their standing ovation.

He was a private man who would never grow old in his movies, quitting Hollywood at the age of 62 to focus on fatherhood for his newborn daughter, Jennifer.

In the age of YouTube I sometimes catch glimpses of Cary at various tributes, like The American Film Institute or The Kennedy Center Honors.  He’s always smiling, always laughing, and still handsome with his silvery hair and black glasses.

He seems kind, sweet and gracious.

There’s one last reason why I’ve fallen more in love with Cary Grant with each passing year.  His performances take me away, to a place where I can forget the demands and stresses of my world and place me smack in the middle of his.

When my husband or I have a bad day, we have a ritual that’s evolved over the years.  We watch His Girl Friday and laugh out loud while marveling at Cary’s brilliant rapid-fire repartee with Rosalind Russell.

So a very Happy Birthday to Cary Grant.  I hope that, wherever you are, you know how much you’ve meant to millions of movie lovers over the years.

But remember that I loved you the most.

Who is your favorite actor?

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