How My Support Hero Helps Me Live My Best Life

"To honor the unsung heroes who support and make a difference for people living with multiple sclerosis (MS), MSWorld and Biogen are introducing #MySupportHero. For MS Awareness Month in March, we're going to celebrate and thank those individuals or groups who help people rise Above MS." ~MSWorld, Biogen

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I've written about many people who make a difference in my life but never solely about my #1 unsung hero. This post is to honor him:

I would not be who I am today without the most important unsung hero in my life, my husband of 27 years, Gary. He's always at my side, ready to be my legs, arms, brains and heart whenever I need him, without hesitation or complaint. When people tell me I look good for having MS I want to tell them that without my husband I would not have survived the journey as well as I did. As corny as it sounds he has been, and still is, the wind beneath my wings.

It was soon after we met in 1985 that my body began to fail me. Falling down in public and sleeping 'round the clock is not typical of a 28 year old. So when my diagnosis came soon after our engagement I gave him the opportunity to break if off, knowing that my future was now an uncertain one.

I loved him enough to let him go. His response was that a life without me was no life at all.

When MS comes knocking on my door, as it does so often, it knocks on both of our doors. We're a team, perfectly synchronized, and when something happens to one of us it happens to us both.

From exacerbation to exacerbation I've leaned on him in more ways than I can say, and he's always there to catch me. He alone knows what it's like for me to live with this invisible disease. He is my greatest advocate, my constant protector and the one who reminds me to stay active, eat right, stay positive and live well.

He understands when I'm forced to cancel plans and never expects me to be more than I am. I don't know what I would have done without him. I never want to find out.

He is the best part of me and no matter what MS throws my way he reminds me that we are a team, that I'm never alone, and that no matter what happens everything will fall into place.

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The best thing I ever did in my life was asking him out on our first date. The rest, as they say, is history. I am blessed and grateful to be married to such a man. Who could ask for anything more?

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A Gratitude Break After 15 Days Of Writing For National Blog Posting Month (Oy!)

After fifteen days of writing for National Blog Posting Month (NaBloPoMo) I'm taking it a little easier today. As I write this it's late afternoon, and I'm enjoying the view of our mountain so softly lit by the setting sun. The snow barely covers the ground, reminding me that another winter is soon upon us and with it comes the dreaded permanent chill in the air.

The quiet in the house is comforting, the only sound are the bells on my cats' collars. It soothes me in ways I can't explain. And so I reflect.

Recently I was asked to create a gratitude challenge for MultipleSclerosis.net, the health website I write for. Often, the holidays are a difficult time for people living with chronic illness, making it important to remember what we're grateful for instead of focusing on our illness. This issue is not exclusive to those with disabilities. It can also be a lonely or stressful time for others.

I posted three things I am grateful for with accompanying photos. With Thanksgiving coming, I thought I'd write a (very) short gratitude post for my 16th day of NaBloPoMo.

I am grateful that our son had a chance to get to know his great-grandparents.

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And that all four of his grandparents are an integral part of his life.

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I am grateful I have had an opportunity to travel to see loved ones, and to explore new places.

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I am more than grateful for every experience I've had, both good and bad, that helped shape my life to bring me to this moment. Because right now I am grateful to you, dear reader, for your comments, encouragement and support. You have enriched me in ways that I never anticipated or take for granted. I humbly thank you.

Have a wonderful Sunday and an empowering week.

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Our Pets Deserve To Be A Part Of Our Disaster Preparedness Plans

In the aftermath of September 11, 2001 approximately 300 service dogs were used to assist in the search and rescue operations employed to look for survivors. They continued their search for many long hours after that tragic day to locate victims' belongings. 

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These animals were loyal and hard-working, and we owe them a debt of gratitude. Don't you agree that every animal deserves our love and care when it comes to disaster preparedness?

That is why I am happy that the ASPCA reminded me that September is Disaster Preparedness Month. On Thursday, September 18 at 7pm ET, the ASPCA, along with Good Morning America's Ginger Zee and experts from ASPCA, FEMA and USDA (and some very special animal guests who are disaster survivors) are offering a Google Hangout that you can be a part of.

Their goal is to educate all pet owners about the importance of including their pets when planning for an emergency. You can RSVP for this event at http://bit.ly/1BpYSrb.

Also, please stop at www.aspca.org/BePrepared to learn the latest tips and get a free rescue alert sticker. You can also find out how to download the free ASPCA App that includes a check-list of actions to take before, during and after a major storm.

Our pets take good care of us every day with their unconditional love. Show them your unconditional love by including them in your emergency plan.

Is your pet included in your emergency plan? 

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